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By arisamiyashita, Jan 6 2018 12:26PM

2017 has been a year of wonderful triumphs as well as untimely challenges. A year of tragedies and heartache as well as good fortune and blessings. We more than often have to play the cards that life deals us. I truly hope that for all of you, my precious Kings and Princes will be dealt the very best hand 2018 bringing you a year of peace and good will as well as great fortune!

This year we would like to start the New Year with a little humor and tongue and cheek. Please enjoy a few of our favorite jokes.

-Tokyo Butterflies

“ Life is a lot like a Penis..

simple, soft, straight,

relaxed and hanging

freely.. then a woman

makes it hard “

*See the other “sexy jokes” on my lovely friend's blog*

-Misa's blog

-Mio’s blog

-Kiyomi’s blog

-Angelina’s blog

By arisamiyashita, Sep 24 2017 04:03PM

The Best Remote-Controlled Vibrators for Long-Distance Sex

One of the big things long-distance couples have to figure out is how to keep their sex life exciting when they don’t get to see each other as much as they’d like. If you just got into an LDR, you might even be wondering HOW you incorporate sex into your relationship at all! Well, hopefully, you have some idea, but all of us can use some suggestions.

It’s no secret that I’m a big fan of sex toys when it comes to long-distance sex. Sexting is fun; cyber sex is even better, but there’s nothing quite like a sex toy to add some excitement to your sex life. I like his and hers matching sex toys, but if I’m really honest, my favorite are remote-control vibrators. Why?

Because, well, they’re all about our pleasure, but that doesn’t mean a man won’t enjoy it, too. In fact, he might even enjoy it more than his partner.

These vibrators are made for long-distance relationships, as they’re controllable from anywhere in the world. All you need is a smartphone and a Wi-Fi connection. And there’s something so sexy about having your man involved in something that you would normally do alone, especially as the vibrators tend to be small enough and discreet enough to take out in public—if you’re brave enough.

There are lots of vibrators to choose from, but in this post I share my top three. They’re versatile and controllable by app, and they all have unique features that will easily spice up your sex life. Deciding on the best one for you will depend on what you’re looking for. Let’s take a closer look at what they each offer.


OK, where to start with the Vibease? This small-but-powerful vibrator has A LOT of pros.Maybe the best one is that it’s wearable. So if you and your partner are in a particularly adventurous mood, you can slip it into your panties and slip out the door. He can then control it when you’re at work, out to dinner or just about anywhere you dare to do it! Also, it’s completely silent (or as near to silent as a vibrator can be – if it made no noise it wouldn’t be working!). Advertised as the quietest vibrator on the market, this is the perfect toy for when you want to have discreet fun.

Often the idea of getting it on with your partner in public is a little more fun in theory than it is in practice. You have to find a spot, a position and get everything done as fast as possible in case you get caught. But with the Vibease, you don’t have any of those problems. All the fun of sex in public, without any of the risk. Plus, your partner can control it from anywhere in the world.

Obviously, that’s the most important part as we’re talking about wireless remote-control vibrators that are perfect for long-distance relationships. So how does the controlling part work?

The Vibease is compatible with Android and iPhones and is controlled via app. You just have to set it up to connect your phone to your lover’s, and he can have full control of your vibrator. The best part is that you don’t have to have the same type of phones. All you need is an Internet connection. A fun game might be to put it in your panties in the morning and let your man know, then he can surprise you by turning it on whenever he feels like it. He might just want a little running commentary in return. But I’m sure you can use your imagination when it comes to getting the most pleasure out of the Vibease.

Finally, if you ever want to use this toy alone, it also has a cool feature where it vibrates in sync with fantasy stories so you can turn on a little erotica and let the vibrations do the rest.

Lovense Lush

The Lovense Lush is a very sexy-looking vibrator that is nicely designed to stimulate the hot twosome: g-spot and clit. Discreet, powerful, and totally wearable, this is one vibrator that’s guaranteed to spice up your LDR.

So here’s the techie bit about how Lovense Lush works. Like the Vibease and the We-Vibe, Lush is compatible with Android and iPhones and it works through Bluetooth. It’s really easy to set it up with your phone and with your partner’s phone. You download the Lovense Wearables app from the app store, fill in your email details to register, and switch on your toy.

You can happily use this vibrator alone, by controlling the vibes from your own phone. But since we’re looking at ways to hot things up in your relationship, you’re going to want to connect with your partner. In order to give your partner control, you send him a request via the app and once he’s accepted it, you’re good to go. When you’re long-distance, the vibe is controlled by internet. As long as you have Wi-Fi, you’re set for some fun.

You, or your partner, control the vibrations via the touchscreen on the app, sliding your finger around to speed up, slow down, and change the pattern. This has got to be one of the simplest, and most fun, ways to get your buzz. It’s completely natural; you let your fingers do the walking but because it’s your phone you’re playing with, you can do it anywhere you dare! And, of course, your boyfriend can have fun on his phone when he’s on the train or in a meeting, knowing he’s sending you wild.

Because the vibrator can also be controlled from close range, it’s a good option for when your boyfriend is back in town – give him the controls and use this as part of your foreplay in the bedroom or even as a sexy game when you’re out on a date. In fact, I found this one was better at a close distance as there were some problems with lost connections and difficulty setting up the shared connection when my partner was out of town.

We-Vibe 4 Plus

The We-Vibe 4 Plus doesn’t have a very sexy name, but it’s a very sexy toy. It is similar to the Vibease in that it’s a remote-controlled vibrator, but that’s where the similarities end. Unlike the Vibease, the We-Vibe is shaped so that it can stimulate your clit and your G-spot at the same time.

If you’re using it for solo play or when your man’s in town, there’s a wireless remote control so that you don’t have to worry about using your hands. The best thing about it, though, is that it’s designed to be used during sex, so you can slip it on, then slip your man in, and you can both enjoy the vibrations. I know you might be more focused on the long-distance sex now, but it’s always nice to know that you can get lots of use out of your favorite toys. Plus, I’m sure your man would like to hear about that when he’s controlling it from 4,000 miles away. Again, the toy can be controlled by an app, so distance is not a problem.

When it comes to vibrations, there are 10 modes to choose from, which include the standard vibrate, pulse and wave, and the more intriguingly named bounce, cha cha cha, and peak. I guess you have to try those to know exactly what they feel like, but something tells me most women won’t mind volunteering for that experiment. If you want to change things up, your man can make a custom playlist, choosing the different vibe, duration and intensity and surprise you with it. Or make your own, and let him control it! Half the fun of introducing a toy into your long-distance sex life is experimenting.

By arisamiyashita, Jun 1 2017 02:22PM


The Ultimate Orgasm - Priming the Prostate

We understood one basic principle: sexual satisfaction for men is delivered through their exterior genitalia, while women achieve it internally. But it looks like men were sold short with that explanation, because another powerful pleasure center exists inside the male body. Prostate-assisted orgasms aren’t as widely publicized as the penile version. But there is an enthusiastic community of people who have experienced the wildly intense and lengthy orgasms they can deliver. There is a reason, after all, why the sex toy industry seems to be overflowing with prostate stimulators (“progasms” as they’re sometimes called), massagers and plugs.

For some, this realm remains a largely unexplored, uncomfortable territory. It’s for this group that we bring the five steps to achieving an amazing prostate-assisted orgasm.

1. Prep For It

Anytime butt play is involved, it’s important to take the right precautions. Things have a tendency of getting messy when this region of the body is involved, but an easy routine can help sexual participants avoid embarrassing incidents. For the man looking to achieve a prostate-assisted orgasm, douching is probably a good idea. The process flushes your body of all junk so you don’t have to worry about it coming out during sex. It wouldn’t hurt to follow up with a shower.

The penetrator should also take some polite measures to maximize his or her partner’s experience. The skin around the anus is sensitive, and can tear easily, so trim nails, and clean hands are a must. Couples may want to arm themselves with paper towels, and rubber gloves (for those who aren’t fluid-bonded with their partners).

2. Lube Up, Warm Up

Unlike a vagina, the anus isn’t designed for penetration. So lots of lube are welcome, and should be continuously applied throughout your rendezvous. For those who aren’t accustomed to being penetrated, a little warm up can go a long way. Prepare your partner for penetration by grazing the butt cheeks, stroking the shaft and massaging the anus(which is loaded with as many nerve endings as your erogenous zones). Other notoriously sensual areas are the nipples and the ears, but everyone is different. The best way to figure out where your partner wants to be caressed is by asking. 

3. Diamonds are a Guy’s Best Friend: Finding Your Target

Finding the prostate may be a bit of a puzzle for those who haven’t done it before. But it’s not so hard. Because the prostate swells when aroused, it’s best to start the process when already aroused. The prostate can be located externally via the perineum (the diamond-shaped area between the scrotum and the anus). It’s possible for your partner to reach orgasm simply by applying pressure to the area and administering a generous massage. But for those who prefer a more direct approach, penetration is the way to go. The prostate is located about two inches below the rectum toward the scrotum. After inserting a finger (or two if you’re feeling comfortable) you should feel a chestnut-sized ball. Moving the finger(s) in a “come hither” motion toward his navel can stimulate the prostate to the point of orgasm.

4. Use Your Muscles

We’ve all heard of Kegels, but what most people don’t realize is that both sexes can benefit from this kind of exercise. The pubococcygeus (PC) muscles not only help men maintain control over urination and blood flow to the penis, but can help them during orgasm as well. Much like the female G-spot orgasm, prostate-assisted orgasms are achieved and maintained through a series of muscle contractions, so strengthening this area is key. There are a bunch of different ways you can help do this, but one of the most effective seems to be clenching your butt cheeks and anus (we all know how to hold in a fart, right?). The more control you have over these muscles the longer your orgasm can last.

5. Don’t Forget About The Toys!

Sure, it’s great to have a partner who can lend a hand (literally). But there’s a whole market for people who go at it solo. The Aneros Progasm Prostate Massager seems to be leading the way when it comes to prostate-assisted orgasms. The Aneros is a relatively small (3.5 inches), wavy-shaped device that users can easily insert into the anus. It comes equipped with a finger loop for easy removal and a “p-tab” that nestles up against the perineum for extra pleasure. By clenching their butt cheeks, users pivot the device forward, allowing for contact with the prostate. When the muscles relax, the device reverts back to its stationary position. This stroking motion is what stimulates the “p-spot” and allows for hands-free, toe-curling orgasms. And you don’t have to stop there. A lot of guys also enjoy wearing a cock ring during prostate play.

6.Other Benefits

Prostate-assisted pleasure comes with lots of other benefits aside from experiencing an amazing and undiscovered orgasm. The process helps flush out the prostate and increases blood flow to the pelvic area. This can help decrease impotence and provide some cancer prevention.

Apart from the intensity, the most appreciated aspect of prostate-assisted orgasms has to be that they allow for multiple orgasms (no more female envy!). With prostate-assisted orgasms, many men will experience “dry orgasm” meaning they don’t ejaculate. Ejaculation needs a refractory period; orgasm does not. 

Penetrative orgasm is something that appeals to both gay and straight men. Unfortunately, homophobia and outdated sexual values seem to have put a damper on general public dialogue on the matter. The process of prostate-assisted orgasm allows men to step outside cemented gender roles, hand the sexual reins over to a different driver and experience a new dimension of satisfaction. As professional dominatrix Margaret Corvid writes, “It’s an opportunity for men to enjoy the receptivity and vulnerability of being penetrated, which is a fulfilling part of sexuality that is largely off-limits to men in mainstream sexual culture.” 

See the other "education 101" on my lovely friend's blog

-Misa's blog

-Rina's blog

-Mio's blog

By arisamiyashita, Mar 30 2017 01:44PM

The other day I found myself famished after a morning of shopping in the upscale district of Aoyama in Tokyo. I decided to have a light lunch at the Blue Brick Lounge a lovely lunch spot located very near the new La perla lingerie complex (one of my favorites). I was seated on the outside terrace and sank into a big comfy chair. I ordered brunch and a cafe au lait. It was a beautiful spring morning and I felt very alive. I knew I look quite stunning in my AG jeans, Donna Karen white V necker T short and Jimmy Choo pencil stilettos.

As settled into my morning brunch, I noticed a handsome dark haired green eyed man staring at me. I smiled flirtatiously at him and he quickly looked away, blushing with embarrassment. I noticed he was alone and probably would have enjoyed my company. I would have welcomed the company if he would have come to my table and made an introduction. I’m quite old fashioned and believe the man should make the first move when approaching a woman. He continued to steal wanton glances at me during my meal. I continued to smile and flirt but he simple was to shy or lacked the confidence to approach me. I eventually had to leave and gave him a wink and an air kiss before I left.

He must be kicking himself for not acting on his instincts. The moral to my little story is " Carpe Diem " seize those beautiful opportunities that cross your path ! Forget about your pride, possible embarrassment and whose watching. Go for the gold - life is too short to be shy and meek.

I urged you all to go out and be the very best pick artist you can be.

The worst case -you get E for effort the best case a sordid affair with a beautiful minx.

Best to you all xxx


By arisamiyashita, Mar 18 2017 12:34PM

Pumps Up Lace Down

I hope all you dashing gents are making very firm plans to visit us here in Tokyo, Japan. As you may know spring is just around the corner and one of my favorite traditions, cherry blossom season comes hand in hand.

Cherry blossom viewing is synonymous with intimacy. This is one of the rare times in Japan you may witness very open displays of affection and in many cases intimacy.

As the drinking of sake is a must during blossom viewing and with copious amounts being consumed by both sexes inhibitions are quickly forgotten or perhaps set aside. Because what happens behind a full bloom of cherry blossoms stays behind a full bloom of cherry blossoms.

Up Close and Personal –The Naked Truth

Exclusive Interviews with Five Elite Five-Stars Japanese Escorts !


Arisa Miyashita

‡“Which is the first body parts your eyes would wander to if you were to ever see me naked?”

- I’m going to check your abs, ass and cock – in that order!

‡“Have you ever decided to kiss or make out with a guy just because you were horny?”

- Yes, especially when I lock eyes passionately with a man that has beautiful juicy lips.

‡“What is the naughtiest moment in your school days that you can remember?”

- Actually I was a good girl as I attended a strict mission Girl’s junior-high and high school. I was in a dormitory so we had very little freedom. I do remember masturbating often and dreaming of having a handsome boy sneak into my dorm.

‡“If I ask you to ask me to do something naughty what would you prefer the most from me?”

- I want to tie you up and then tease you until you are on the brink of orgasm but I won’t let you come. I will do this for hours until you beg me to fuck you.

‡“Have you ever had a dream about being a lesbian?”

- I didn’t dream because I am a fully bisexual. I think lesbians only enjoy being with women. I am comfortable with both. I have plenty of opportunities to enjoy bisexual encounters so not much dreaming really needed.

‡“What do you prefer; thongs or panties?”

- I would say thongs only now. I think the age of the brief is over. I love lingerie and t-backs and tongs are my things. I am fine to wear whatever you like but personally the gift of a lovely lacy thong opens my door.

‡ “While you are kissing, what types of other things you prefer to be done simultaneously?”

- Softly touching and kissing my body while rubbing my clitoris.

‡ “Where you do like being touched the most?”

- Everywhere. I love being touched caressed and kissed. I’m super sensitive and easy to climax.

‡“What is your wildest sexual secret that you want to indulge in at least once in your lifetime?”

- It’s a secret. If you book me I might tell you :)

‡“Have you ever had an unexpected orgasm?”

- Yes I did while I was having slow controlled sex. I couldn't stand it anymore. I just exploded physically and mentally. It was amazing. I felt like I was in a different world!

‡ “What’s your favorite thing to do with a guy?”

- Taking shower together and washing each other’s body and then getting his cock super hard and having sex.

‡ “What are you wearing right now?”

- Tight dress with no thongs :)

‡ “If we only had twenty-four hours together, what do you think we’d do?”

- Making love at the beach while enjoying a beautiful sunrise/sunset view.

‡“Are you a trouble maker?”

- Yes “ - trouble maker” is my middle name.

‡“What tricks do you use to turn a guy on?”

- While wearing a super tight dress and high heels, I would cross and uncross my legs while having you seated in front of me at a bar or café.

See the other Interviews on my lovely friend’s blog

-Misa’s interview

-Rina’s interview

-Mio’s interview